The True Blessings of Love…

Before I met the love of my life, my life was completely different… I was always a happy one yet it has never been this complete, as it is today. I never thought a day would come where I wake up in the morning and feel completely happy. It is not something that can be explained very easily. It’s such a blissful feeling, where I feel extremely safe and need no words from him to know that I’m loved beyond words by a wonderful human being, who is so sure of his decision made to spend the rest of his life with me and only me…

I used to think that love is complicated. It’s actually not complicated at all when you meet your soul mate.  I’m not telling love is ever going to be rosy as everyone would love to picture it but if two people love each other it is not too hard to look beyond a simple mistake or dislike of each other..

I guess our secret to true happiness and bliss is we try to keep our small battles only between both of us and we will be done with our misunderstandings within an hour and say the magic word, SORRY, whether we were wrong or right at that situation..

As long as we remember our love is much stronger than any issue out there, we will always be together, happily in love, always hugging, kissing and smiling from the heart even at the most hardest times in life…  We have promised to teach ourselves every day to look beyond the imperfections and opening up with love rather than hate… A good hug with and the words I love you from the heart can fix most troubles… Being genuine is hard, I know... but that is the foundation to everything...

If someone needs their space we need to learn to give that too.  Being solitary is also important to realize what we are and what we really want to be as a person, a friend and as a couple.

Both of us are not perfect in any way but we are uniquely just perfect for each other. We are so different yet when we are together we feel like, we are the same.. And we make plans as we go along to get through our struggles with our love and by tolerating our differences.

There is no point in shouting at your better half if he fails to take you somewhere. First remind your self  to ask him whether he had a bad day.. Trust me, you rather have a happy partner in the long run than going to a  function that made your husband/ boyfriend miserable after a tiring day. It can wear you off as well after sometime, because he is just not happy.  

He is the one who take cares of you and loves you every day.. A function or most people in life will come and go..  The little moments of truly caring for your partner's well being will be appreciated through out life.. So my advice to the hot tempered ones are to think 10 times before hurting your loved ones for a small moment of happiness.. I have experienced in real life, this simple thinking process will lead to lot less regrets in life...  You do not have to give in always but sense and learn when to push and when to pull away.. Observing and learning is way better than letting your mouth run its tap of disappointments because of a simple moment of anger. Patience gives out great rewards...  He might take you some where more beautiful and romantic tomorrow as a surprise...

I thank god every day for the all that has been offered to me in life…I’m  even  thankful for the past mistakes in life because now I know how to appreciate the people who actually love me for who I really am and who loves to see me grow and be better as a person...

I hope and pray all of you’ll will be touched by the wonders of true love everyday… You'll definitely wake up smiling and go to bed smiling too.. No two relationships are going to be alike. Have your own perfect version. It will be such a awesome feeling.. Don't compare your relationships with any other person's relationship.. but if you see a great couple, be inspired.. Learning good values will never hurt anyone..

Remember anger is just like poison.. It can ruin many things.. Learn to love, be kind and be patient..Cos love can conquer it all and it will always be a true blessing to life...

SuLi

TILL LOVE DO US APART

I was single for a couple of years before I met the love of my life. But I was one of those lucky few, who enjoyed being single as much as I enjoy being committed to my boyfriend. I always thought LOVE should be something that keeps people happy... And being committed today I still haven’t changed the way I use to think of LOVE. It’s such a precious thing and I always wonder why people always take it for granted so easily while you can actually enjoy every second of it...

I see many couples fighting for their relationships but the real question behind is, is it really worth the trouble? I’m not trying to judge anyone or offend anyone by my random thoughts. I have just put my honest opinion about what I really feel.
Love for me is a lot of happiness, trust and most of all stepping into another person’s shoes and seeing their happiness while we find ours. If there is no understanding and trust, how can there ever be LOVE??? If you can’t like a person for who she or he is, what do you love about that person? Most of the time when I look in to complicated relationships (please excuse my language) but I always think what the f*%#???

I love my boyfriend for who is... his amazing qualities, his personality and most of all because he UNDERSTANDS me and TRUST me enough to know that I would not do anything that will hurt him. Physical attraction is needed for a healthy relationship, but that’s just physical attraction... How can people call it LOVE?? Every relationship is going to have its fair share of arguments and disagreements but the more you avoid screaming at each other the happier you will be...

But that doesn’t mean you need to be a liar or hide from your soul mate what’s the real crisis that seem to crash your system. I see men and women use the words ‘BUT I LOVE YOU’ to cover up their mistakes. I think it should be the other way around. Love should make you a better person, not a better liar. If you can’t be honest with your partner, especially on hard times, that relationship will be just a diamond without its fire... nothing real..

Love can conquer a lot of things if you are in the right relationship. If your partner doesn’t listen to you and only judge you, you might want to look back and think is it love, lust or just physical attraction that you have towards that person.

A relationship can really be a happy one if we try to understand another person before wanting to be understood. And rather than showing anger and your mood swings, try to show more love to the other person and try to convince that person to be a better person than grumbling and reminding them about their mistakes made in the past. I think that’s what how you can really be happy in a relationship, rather than shouting and screaming about how you feel. You don’t need to show how hurt you are by mentally or physically hurting another person...

Take a deep breath, look passionately in to your lover’s eyes and try to explain how you feel. The reaction might not be what you wanted but at least you will be a calmer person, your blood pressure levels will be lesser and you won’t have to be hospitalized afterwards...

But a relationship will stumble and drown like an unattended boat down a stream, if the other party doesn’t help you to make the relationship work. You can stay in the relationship that you’re going to fight every other day in, but are you going to be a happy person???? There will only be hurtful memories and nothing else to focus on... You might move on with life and continue your unhappy relationship, but in the back of your mind you’ll always know that you are going to trip and fall on the next step, ‘cos you’re walking looking at the sky rather than looking at the broken road that needs your attention.

Don’t get used... Don’t stay in a relationship because you are used to it. Be in a relationship because it makes you smile every day... Because he or she makes you feel that you are the only one in the world that makes them feel loved. In my thoughts, it’s always better to stay single than being in a relationship that cannot be fixed. You rather have a fling, than hurt yourself being with a man whose going to finally make you crash and burn.

If you really want to fight for love, fight with passion, good sex and kind words than with bitter memories, harsh words and physical violence...

Life is going to have its issues but how you react to it can change a lot of things... Before we change others, let’s change our selves. Let’s try to hate less, be less bitchy to people and put some kindness, love and affection to our hearts and then try to concentrate on other people’s issues.

Live happy and love more... <3

SuLi